3 Reasons Healthy Conflict Seen in Love Relationships

Conflict is an essential part and can not be avoided in a loving relationship. However, couples can feel the healthy benefits of conflict.

Elizabeth Dorrance Hall, assistant professor of Communication Studies at Utah State University, USA explains, the three things you need to know about the benefits of conflict couples in a loving relationship.

1. Signal conflict needed to change for both parties.

This provides an opportunity to make changes to any matter in dispute. You also have the opportunity to address common problems in relationships with family.

2. Conflict shows you and your partner in life are interdependent.

For example, a husband and you are sharing a car. This makes them highly interdependent and coordinated, who is using the car.

Then came the dispute, either from you or couples who will use public transport. This is fairly simple conflict will not damage the relationship of love, but could have the idea to overcome these problems.

3. Conflicts almost never happened on what was seen on the surface.

For example, the couple did not take out the trash at night and then could make you angry.

The appropriate quoted from Psychology Today, Monday (03/27/2017), perhaps you really upset because the action a couple shows, he does not appreciate the time and effort that you make to keep the house.

Looking for a reason that is more in the matter of conflict is an important step to improve relations. Let you and your partner in a calm state and then search for the core conflict issues and trying to overcome together.

Conflict is a healthy example of how your mind and couples as well as the communication fabric. When you are looking for deeper reasons about the conflict, you can address the core issues in a love relationship rather than focusing on issues surface.